WalkWithFxafa-Malice

First of all, writing here is therapeutic💯 y'all!😅

Let me give you guys the juiciest 'amebo' from my house, premium gossip!😅 It involves my husband so please 🤐!😅

Well, I think in the city of malice Keepers, I mean, one where only people who have acquired stars in malice keeping, as in,  the rich of the rich in keeping malice live; my husband is the king!😅

Man can keep malice like his life depends on it😂 He offends you, he keeps malice, you offend him, he keeps malice, in the absence of any offense, he'll still keep malice in advance!😂

I on the other hand can't stand it! Because I'm not much of an extrovert, I love to stay indoors and at such, I always want to make my home as fun as possible especially with the few people I have around and top on that list is my husband. I must confess also that I'm a very clingy lover!😅🙈 It's so bad that I wouldn't even want you to go anywhere and where it's necessary, I want you to take me along and when that's not possible, I expect that you run back to me as soon as possible! O could even time you sef!😅 So you see why I hate keeping malice?! It takes my fun away from me.

So earlier in our marriage (been married siiiiiinnnnnccccce😅 2years ago), any time he starts on his malice journey, I'd apologize and do everything within my power 🙈 to get us to reconcile; I'd cook all the food he's ever imagined because he never jokes with his food especially it's quality among many other things.

But mehn, since I had my baby, I don't even have the energy to even deal with his malice situation. If anything, I use to be glad in my heart of hearts when he starts because it reduces my work load for that period as per, he won't eat from me or even ask me to look for one leg of his sock or even his lenses neither will he ask for any uinbvfhh🙈😅 . So therefore, I get to rest properly. 

As I'm typing this now, he just started one. And guess what? He's waiting for me to offer him the usual peace offering 😂 What he does not realize is that, "he's on a very long thing 😂"

I really want him to overcome this malice situation but I don't know how to do it- I've prayed o, don't ask me to pray 😅

The question now is, have you ever dealt with similar situation (s)?

Can you be kind enough to walk me through how you were able to fix things?🙏

I'll be waiting in the comment section.

❤️

Fxafa





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