WalkWithFxafa

 So you've been offended; maybe cheated on, lied to, lied against, betrayed, stolen from etc and the person in the wrong has decided to apologise whether or not the apology is sincere and actually came to tender it. Let's honestly tell the truth:  Is that enough to heal you of the hurt they caused?  Do you automatically continue the relationship like nothing happened? For me, the truth is; an apology in it self has never been enough and most times, it does not bring back the affected relationship. This is how it works for me. An apology is actually a starting point. Once you apologize (sincerely!😁, Because I have an inner testing device for sincerity😅), I take it that you feel bad about offending me and makes me feel a bit better. But that does not mean I'm completely whole about the pain I feel. Other things that makes me heal even better are that you allow me express my pain and how your actions affected me and that includes rants o!😅 Plus answering all my questions. F

... 🥂 to those of you who have perfect marriages!( 🙄yeah yeah. I know they exist and that shear knowledge makes me really envious). To those of us in the battle field😅, all I can say is; "more grease to our elbows mehn!" A quick story.  My  husband came home a little earlier than usual. I was excited because I love his company. His coming got me pumped with excitement. I was on my feet, trying to set his dinner and make the home as comfortable for him as possible. One thing led to another and we were arguing. Then he storms out of the house while talking to "a friend" on the phone and explaining to him how "this woman" has started nagging him out "again" and he's on his way for them to hang out and I could hear the other person giving him what seemed to be words of comfort while urging him to hasten up. I on the other, became so frustrated. What I had hoped was going to be a marvelous evening has turned out to be a bitter one and all I cou